Another email from Bethel about Hope

We got another email from our wonderful friend who is volunteering at Bethel this morning. We are so grateful for the extra attention she is giving Hope! Kim had asked her about how Hope does with stairs and here is some of the response:

“She’s used to a lot of stairs everywhere she goes at Bethel. Blind kids are amazing and can adapt to anywhere so no worries at all about that. :-) She’ll amaze you as she grows up. She’ll be able to do almost everything a sighted kid can do. At the blind school where I am from we take the kids skiing, they ride bikes, roller skate, high schoolers go to the mall and coffee shops by themselves and everything. So don’t worry about blind proofing or anything-just normal toddler stuff. Maybe use gates at the stairs until she gets the hang of where things are and you get the hang of how adventurous she is to head down the stairs on her own. :-)

I fed her dinner tonight. She was sitting in her high chair wailing-I don’t know why. But calmed down when I talked to her and gave her the rest of her dinner. She started whimpering when she was done and drinking her bottle (she is still using a bottle) and I just stroked her head and she calmed right down. She’s very consolable with affection. I wish I could have more time with her because I really think that’s what she’s needing. But soon it will be her Mama and Daddy!

I forgot to answer your question last time. I really don’t think she understands that she is getting a family. I don’t think she’d really understand even if she could see pictures of you because of her communication level at this point. I’m glad she’s hearing your voice so that when you come she will have a sense of familiarity. I did notice she does follow verbal cues well. I remember you asking about that before. Ayis will say something about a walk and she’ll nod or they’ll tell her to sit down and she will.

So that’s your baby update. I really think she’s going to bond super fast and soak up all the attention. She’s really friendly with anyone who shows her affection, so I’m sure she won’t be scared or upset or anything on meeting you. It’s gonna be so fun!!!! I sure hope I’m around when the time comes!”

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